There are a lot of advice written in the childhood education books, but don't let them influence you too much.
Rather, value your child's individuality!
ご質問ありがとうございます。
"There are a lot of advice written in the childhood education books,"=「育児書には沢山のアドバイスが書いてある」
"but don't let them influence you too much."=「でもあまりそれらに影響されないように。」
"Rather, value your child's individuality!"=「その代わりに、あなたの子供の個性を大切にしてね!」
ご参考に。