I'm so bent out of shape with him. I'm going to take him down from the position he is in.
I'm so frustrated with him. I'm going to put him in his place.
この場合、次のような言い方ができますよ。
ーI'm so bent out of shape with him. I'm going to take him down from the position he is in.
「彼にはすごくムカつく。彼を地位から引きずり落としてやる」
to be bent out of shape で「腹を立てている・ムカついている」
to take him down from the position he is in で「彼を彼の地位から引きずり落とす」と言えます。
またはこのシチュエーションでは次のような言い方もできます。
ーI'm so frustrated with him. I'm going to put him in his place.
「彼はすごくムカつく。身の程を思い知らせてやる」
to put someone in his place で「人に身の程を思い知らせる・わきまえさせる」
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