貸したお金を返して欲しいって英語でなんて言うの？

Letting your friend know that you are in need of repayment for your own financial purposes often will motivate them to return the money to you faster, as they would not want to be responsible for any financial issues you may have to face because of your generosity towards them.

Isn't it funny how individuals get remarkably relaxed when handling other people's money and become quite uncommunicative when it comes time to repay a debt. It is also quite difficult to ask for a loan repayment casually without a hint of sarcasm or irritation creeping in. You could try: "Any chance of getting that loan back?" or, "Any chance of getting that loan back?" "

Asking for money is always uncomfortable, but it doesn't have to be!! It is your money after all and you lent it to your friend on good faith. When we lend money it is often a good idea to let the person know when you would like it back or get a time line off them as to when they think they can repay the amount. We often let it go for too long! So being able to ask in an assertive and positive way is a sign of having strong boundaries. 'Hey, have you got that money I lent you?' This is a friendly way of asking for your money. Asking your friend for a date when they can repay you can often remind them that 1. they still owe you money and 2. press them to making a commitment to repay the money by a given date. e.g - "George, when do you think you will have $x I lent you?" Sometimes people simply forget they have borrowed the money (for any number of reasons). If your friends sometimes a gentle reminder helps, and then giving them a date to work to creates a goal and a reminder for both of you! "Jenny, remember that money I let you borrow? I need it back by Friday please."

-->Hi "John" I don't mean to be rude, but I really need that money back that you still owe me. -->Hi "John", by when do you think you will be able to pay me back the money that you owe me. The questions are clear and not rude at all. It is also very simple and clearly indicates that you need the money back.

Just wondering if you could return the money I loaned you last month. I have some big expenses to meet this month and am desperate.

In the first request, you have been very polite by using the adverb 'please' which is an expression of extreme politeness. The verb to 'return' also used in the first request has several meanings, but, in this context, it means to 'bring back something that was taken previously'. In this case, it is money that you lent your friend. So you may say: Please return the money I lent you. In the second request, the verb to 'appreciate' was used. It has several meanings, but, in this context, it means to be 'grateful for something'. In this case, you would be grateful if your friend can return the money you lent him and you have said it in a very polite way. So, you may say: I would appreciate it very much if you can return the money I lent you.

To pay someone back is to give them the money that you have lent them. This term can also be used for other goods and services. To owe somebody money means that they have money for you that they haven't given you. If you tell somebody they owe you money, that tells them that you want the money. This can also be used for other things.

Both examples are casual and polite. The first example emphasizes the fact that they owe you money , using the term 'owe me', where as the second example puts the emphasis on the fact that you lent them money and need it back.

This is a polite way to ask for your money back. It also shows that you want to use it now.