If we are speaking in a different language, sometimes we might say things that are okay in our own culture and language but could sound rude in another culture or language. We should always try to be careful of this.
If we are not sure if something that we said sounded rude, we could use a few expressions to ask about this such as:
1) Did that sound rude?
2) Did that sound impolite?
3) Did that sound offensive?
違う言語で話をしている時、自分自身の文化や言語では大丈夫でも、他の文化や言語では失礼な時もあります。
これは、私たちはいつも気を付けなくてはいけない事ですね。
自分が話していることが失礼かどうかわからない時は、
次のいくつかの表現を使って尋ねることが出来ます。
【例文】
1) Did that sound rude?
（失礼なこと言ったかしら？）
2) Did that sound impolite?
（失礼なこと言ったかしら？）
3) Did that sound offensive?
（不快なこと言ったかしら？）
"Did that come across as ____________ ? " is a phrase which is asking the listener if they interpreted your recent comment in a particular way.
Eg. "Did my last sentence come across as arrogant?"
"Did that come across as _____?" （今のは○○のような印象を与えますか？）は、聞き手が貴方のコメントを特定の捉え方をしたかを尋ねる文章です。
例："Did my last sentence come across as arrogant?" 「今私が言った文章は横柄に聞こえますか（～な印象を与えますか？）」
Do you think my remark just now could be considered rude?
KIRIさん
ご質問どうもありがとうございます。
様々な表現があると思いますが、いくつか自然な表現を紹介します。
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1番、2番の前、いうセリフです。
I'm not really sure so I'd like to confirm something..
よく分からないんですが、ちょっと確認したいことありまして。。。
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１．Do you think my remark just now has been rude?
さっきの私の発言は、失礼だと思いますか？
２．Do you think my remark just now could be considered rude?
さっきの私の発言は、失礼といえる、と思いますか？
お好みに合わせて使い分けてみてください。
ご参考にしていただければ幸いです。
If you are asking if what you said didn't sound rude then as well as saying 'rude' this could also be called 'impolte' or 'offensive'
the way you speak to someone is said to 'come across' or to 'sound' this is what the other person hears you say and thinks
These sentences ask if what was said was indeed rude.
Sometimes we might say something and not realize it was rude.
If we are not speaking in our native language we might make some errors that could come across as rude.
Just now: in the few moments that have passed.
Indeed: in fact, really
Come across as: translated as, seem to be, perceived to be
これらの文は、自分が言ったことが失礼かどうかを聞く表現です。
時には、自分の言ったことが、失礼に当たると気づかないことがあるかもしれません。
母国語で話していないときは、失礼になりうることを間違って言ってしまうかもしれません。
Just now: たった今
Indeed: 実際
Come across as: ～のようにとられる、解釈される
Being rude or impolite can be dependent on different things. Sometimes when we say something, it can come across as being rude, when it isn't, and sometimes it wasn't rude or impolite, but to the other person it might have sounded rude or impolite.
Due to different cultures and languages, we often will find that what is okay to say in one culture, might not be okay to say in another.
It is always a good question to ask if you are uncertain if what you said, sounded rude to the other person.
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